How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 00:29
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Hangs out with loser friends.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
What melts your heart every time without fail?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
What is the sum of X+XX+XXX+XXXX?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Does not procrastinate.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
What I need from you?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
What was your wildest experience as a lesbian?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Making more friends is a goal.
Do you have pics of the wife making out with another guy?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
That's it for today.
Why do many Hong Kong Chinese look different from the Han Chinese in mainland China?
Procrastinates a lot.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
When Kundalini is awakened accidentally, what can be done?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Who is the most trusted person in your life, and do they have the same trust on you?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Have you ever had a bad gut feeling about someone and it was right?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Was Jimmy Carter a good President of the United States?
Ask yourself:
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
After 70 years of the crappiest computers ever made, why does IBM exist?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Do not set goals—set systems.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.